This is random. I am sitting in the shop, reading my Oprah magazine. A young, African American, guy walks in the door. Super polite, soft spoken. He says, "excuse me ma'am, sorry to bother you." He goes on to tell me a story about he and his girlfriend recently moved here. He does not have a job yet. They want to get their kids in the school. They need to ride the train up to Chicago to get the kids. Some of what he said I could not hear. He asked for $5.00. I did not even hesitate. I went and got him $10.00 out of my purse. He shook my hand and thanked me. He said he would be back around and repay me when he could. I did not believe his story for a minute. I have no idea what he wanted the money for. He was dressed nicely, not shabby in anyway. Drug addict or drunk did not jump out at me. I am not sure how he randomly walked in my shop. I am not on the main drag. I am the only retail shop on my side of the street. I watched him walk away. He had a spring in his step. He headed away from the train station. That did not surprise me. I never believed he was getting on a train. There is not a train due for hours. If I had to guess, I would say he went across the street for some food. I really am not a sucker for everyone with a sob story. People come in asking for donations for random causes quite often. I do not automatically give them donations or money. I have compassion, I just cannot help everyone. What I am saying is there is not a sign outside of my shop that says, Sucker. I do not think I have been marked by hobos as a safe place for a free meal. At least, I do not think I have been marked.
In cities people come across people asking for money frequently. In my little town, that does not happen. It felt like a test. I knew it was the right thing to do. At least today when I gave away money, I have made more than I gave away!
You are good at reading people AND have a good heart, Jane.
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I was telling my niece the story. It is such an odd thing to happen here. My niece said my Dad had a lady come and ask him for money last week. He gave it to her because what's $5.00 to him. He wastes more than that all the time. I thought the same thing when I gave the money. Guess we think the same.
ReplyDeleteironcially, you do sell suckers. so maybe that is the confusion.
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Really Arizona, you just read this post!!
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